Girls Listen...What Turn Men OFF!!

A lot of complaints from men are showing that it is not really about technique but more about attitude. So let me give you a few pointers and see if you might not be guilty of a few of these yourself.

Pointer Princess – What’s that you ask? Let me give you a little demonstration. uh my boobs are too small, or my butt looks big, or I am getting some cellulite or look at wrinkles; basically you are pointing out all your flaws to him. Why are you doing that? I mean he knows what you look like and he knows how you feel unless he’s in a coma and is blind and has lost his sense of feeling. Stop trying to spotlight what’s wrong with you because after a while he may start to agree with you and that’s a bad thing.

Playing Dead in Bed – You know like when you’re in the woods and if you see a bear you’re suppose to drop and play dead. That’s great if you’re in the woods and there’s a bear but if you’re In bed with your dude it’s a really bad idea. Many guys are complaining that you are just sitting there and they have to check for a pulse or see if you’re breathing. I mean get into it, it’s sex it is suppose to be fun. No guy wants to hump a star fish.

My Hero – Guys like to feel like they’re your hero in bed, like they are rocking your world or they’re just doing it for you and if you are not giving them some positive reinforcement here and there, instead of feeling like superman, they are feeling more like Clark Kent. There is nothing wrong with passing on some compliments and some affirmations here and there. All women like that and guys are the same way, so make sure you extend some compliments here and there.

Sour Kitty Syndrome – Very scary! Think of your kitty as being like your home and you want to play a good hostess. So if you were going to invite somebody over for dinner you’d clean the house, you’d vacuum, you’d mow the lawn, you’d dust, you’d spay air freshener. The kitty should be the same thing. You want to make sure that you are a good hostess; people want to come back often and stay for a long time.

Give up Chick – This is when he comes home and you’re seating there scratching your butt in the same pair of old sweats and a t shirt which still has lunch stains on it and you’re shoving tacos down your mouth. It may not be that bad but you know what try and put in a little effort here and there. I don’t think you have to answer the door everyday with ruby red lipstick on but it would be nice if you just put in a little effort here and there to be attractive to the guy that you’re digging. It’s also going to give you more confidence in yourself.